Create your own magic
Magic is related closely with romance. Romance is the abundant idea that you can always go above + beyond. That everything is beautiful in it’s own way + that there is always a solution to any problem. Couples fall for each other deeply because of pursuit, romantic gestures, notes, intimacy + fun. Sadly, the reason so many marriages don’t stay together is because those things stop. Romance stops. No more magic. No more fun. But it doesn’t have to! Is your marriage needing some magic? Try doing what you first did to attract your spouse a long time ago. Then watch what’s reciprocated!
For children, it’s so important to show them magic in the tiny things not just the “expensive things”. For example: A pair of Jordan’s ($$$) might make your son feel loved, important or seen... but I promise there are better ways, more intimate ways to help him feel that- it requires you to set the atmosphere where magic can grow!
My daughter may ask for a princess doll ($$$) from the toy isle in @Target... but I promise: putting her in a dress, letting her do my makeup, having a tea party + dancing with her to Disney music is what she wants more! She wants magic. She wants love.
Little girls who want magic grow into princesses who want romance. When they are not taught to create it for themselves, they search for it + find temporary solutions to an eternal desire.
No one will create it for you. So many people are waiting for someone to save them. Someone to pay them what they are owed. Someone to provide for them. Someone to show them their worth or beauty. This is called scarcity. Believing there “isn’t enough” until etc...
Scarcity will have you locked in your own “victim” prison your entire life. Don’t let it! Become abundant! What do you have to work with? How can you create magic for you, your family, your friends + your company? How can you go above + beyond in the little things? I want to hear your ideas on romance, magic + loving your life below
Life truly can have a happily ever after... when you believe.
Mel Marie xoxo
