… Positive vibes ONLY- this is THE BIGGEST ONE FOR ME! In order for you to love what you do- you gotta love the vibe you’re in. For those of us who work from home, we are responsible for setting the vibe we work in. **First thing in the morning!
Read More…We are all scared to make mistakes, especially #millennials. Mistakes aren’t pretty, they cause people to shame you, doubt you, even "fear" you. Yet, I don’t know why, because everyone makes mistakes? It's incredible that we want so badly to validate ourselves, that we use others mistakes to make ourselves feel better, instead of helping those who are tripping around us…
Read MoreYou can read all these “great books”, filling your head with information, leadership + wisdom... but if you don’t apply it, what was the point?
Read MoreThe truth is, you can’t force gratitude. You can fake your way through the holidays. Joy will not happen until you face the ugly, sad, unexpected or unwanted emotions this holiday can bring...
Read MoreListen to silence. It has a lot to say.
One of the greatest things you can own in this life is your opinion; to know what you believe + why you do. You will never live intentionally or effectively by listening to everyone else.
Every thing, every word, every gift, every intention... bad or good, small or big, right or wrong will mean nothing if you do not do it, give it or become it with love! Stop focusing on what color your or my lens' are + start checking the beat of your heart....
Read More"A measure of someone's 'self-worth' is not how she feels about her positive experiences, but rather how she feels about her negative ones." @markmansonnet
Everyone goes through a tough situation every now + then, but not everyone can see the part they play in it. Then, even more better themselves because of it. When you go through something hard- don't fake it till you make it. Don't pretend it's not hard by hiding. Don't become the victim by feeling sorry for yourself. Don't try to be "better" than it by lying! Don't avoid it by numbing...
Read MoreIf you had to force it... just know it was never your door to open.
You can be whoever you want + do whatever you want - But not by taking what we want + doing what we want if it means losing our integrity. FYI: "Breaking in" is not hustling, it's trespassing. The same way forcing something is not leadership it's controlling.
You can force someone to do something or even say something, but in the end, what you really wanted was for THEM to WANT TO do it. Sadly, the reality is: If they wanted to say it, they would've. If they wanted to do it, they would've. But they didn't
Read MoreResentment is fog that clouds our perspective. It is full of pride, anger, disappointment, unmet expectations, sadness + death. You feel like you deserve to feel it (maybe you do), but it still will kill everything + everyone around you. When you wear it, people avoid you, because it is ugly.
NOTHING YOU DO OUT OF RESENTMENT WILL EVER BRING LIFE, LOVE OR JOY TO ANYONE!
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